My Problem Isn’t Your Problem

by Larry Richman

Take responsibility for your problems. Don’t blame, deflect, or expect others to fix your problems. Gain increased personal accountability, better decision-making under pressure, and empowered mindset for growth.

Stop waiting for others to fix your problems and take responsibility for yourself. Learn how to replace blame with responsibility, let go of excuses, and take real action at work, at home, and in your relationships. Shift from a victim mindset to one of leadership and agency.

Stop waiting for others to fix your problems. Take responsibility for yourself.

This book challenges the all-too-common habit of shifting blame, making excuses, and waiting for change to come from the outside. With relatable stories, simple tools, and a refreshingly direct voice, My Problem Isn’t Your Problem, helps you break the cycle of helplessness and take ownership for yourself at work, at home, and in your relationships. You’ll learn how to:

• Replace blame with responsibility.
• Let go of excuses and take real action.
• Focus on what you can control.
• Stop relying on the approval of others to feel confident.
• Challenge old stories that limit your growth.
• Shift from a victim mindset to one of agency.

Each of the eight short, practical chapters offers real-life examples, honest reflection prompts, and tools you can use immediately. Whether you’re stuck in a rut or ready to level up, this book gives you what you need to stop reacting and start owning your next move—on purpose.